God’s plan is for u to succeed. People are entitled, including u, to have an opinion. But don’t let the opinion of others affect or define u. If God’s plans are all good and not to harm us, it’s an absolute reality that we have to live with. You have a choice to believe that. What you believe in will define who you are & where you are going. What, where, & who u are today, u decided to become. Stop making excuses & blaming other people about your state in life. You are more than that. And it’s not too late to change your mindset. There’s more to this life. God is up to something & His goal is for U to succeed in EVERYTHING. Your identity is important w/c will define your success. Your identity must be connected to believing God is in the business of making you one.